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Wednesday, July 08, 2020

Wise and Otherwise

Wise and Otherwise is a beautiful collection of 51 short story by Sudha Murty. She is the founder of the CSR wing of the Infosys, a famous IT company from India. Apart from that, she is a prolific writer and a professor. Her stories are drawn from the vast experience acquired by her lifetime service to the people.




Every story will amaze you as it touches one or other aspects of life, sometimes bringing forward the harsh realities of life. She writes about the ordinary people of India with not so ordinary life. Their stories will touch you and at times may fill your heart with heaviness and leave your mind thought provoked. 
Everyone around us is suffering, either mentally (most of us these days) or physically .Its the ability with which they handle the situations, turns out to be a hero, villain, victim or sometimes an unsung hero.

After reading these stories, a thought which came to my mind was that, " The life of an ordinary  person is the most extraordinary one, of which, we know nothing about". Obviously, most of their life passes fighting against the odd situations. A poor father arranging dowry for his daughter's marriage. The same father getting harassed by his son and daughter-in-law in some other story. A  girl was tortured and murdered, the story airs that she lost her life due to stove-fire. Everyone knows the truth but ignores. The one who faces is the one who suffers, people around you will just show their sympathy and walk-off most of the time.

However, there were some inspirational stories as well, a thought provoking, i must say. One of the story that really amazed me was "Bonded by Blisleri". Often natural calamities like earthquakes are very destructive and are reason of pain and misery. I had never heard that somebodies life changed  in a positive way just because of an earthquake.(You may have heard but I, never.. never..). After reading the story, i was awestruck by the fact that how such a destructive natural calamity turns out to be a boon in someone's life.

Some stories also dealt with the principles of success and failure. Success may have many fathers but failure has none. Hard work is important but its the confidence which is one of the greatest asset which one must acquire.

With her stories, Sudha Murty has touched almost every section of daily life. At times, I just wondered how was she able to manage all her works. Managing official works, social works, her teaching obviously and then pocketed out some time for writing as well. Well, i am no one to judge but she is doing her work passionately and is a source of inspiration for today's generation.

image: Sudha Murty
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I would that say that, a string of 51 stories may sound too many for some but you will find a glimpse of real, untouched life in her stories.  You will have a wonderful opportunity to learn some values and read some experiences. These things are pure gold  because no one teaches them.



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Friday, June 05, 2020

Flitered Review....The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck

The subtle art of not giving a fuck points out some of the censored truths of our life in the most ruthless way.

Obviously, the author doesn't give a fuck whether you liked it or not as facts aren't based on someone's likes or dislikes. This is the beauty of this book( you can call it a self-help guide).
Well, I will not recommend it for the gentleman kind of person who doesn't like abusive languages although its quite entertaining( blink of an eye).
   My friend, this book pierces your soul with some bitter truth and thus makes you more aware of yourself, practically. It doesn't give you a fake console and at the same time guides you to deal with your shits. I really felt connected with last two chapters specially the way author illustrated about his adventure and loved the way in which importance of choosing a priority in life is explained.
Although there are certain units, where author doesn't get straight to the point and just keeps on revolving around the same topic.
In short, if you are the kind of person who easily gets confused, being unable to handle your emotions and finds it difficult to choose your priority. I think, you should read it once.                       
                                                                                                                                                                        
                               Here are some of the one-liners and short paragraphs which grabbed my attention.

  •  "The point isn't to get away from the shit.    The point is to find the shit you enjoy dealing with." 
  •  "    The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience.            Paradoxically,the acceptance of one's negative experience is itself a positive experience".                                                  
  •  " Certainty is the enemy of growth . Uncertainty is the root of all progress and all growth. As the old adage goes, the man who believes he knows everything learns nothing".
  • " Absolute freedom, by itself, means nothing". 
  • " Avoiding rejections gives us short-term pleasure by making us rudderless and directionless in the long term".
  • " No one trusts a yes man. The pain in our relationship is necessary to cement our trust in each other and produce greater intimacy". 
  • " Commitment gives you freedom because you are no longer distracted by the unimportant and frivolous. It hones your attention and focus, directing them toward what is most effective at making you healthy and happy". 
             
So, this was all about the book. I hope , you will find it helpful and would save your precious time.